REFLECTIVE, BUT STUCK?
When Life Abroad Asks More Of Your Relationship
Than It Can Carry.
Online Relationship Coaching for Expat Couples
who no longer want to sort through decisions, role shifts, and ongoing pressure on the side — but consciously, together.
Many couples wait because things aren't "that bad".
And only realise much later
how far they have drifted apart.
Clarifying things now is often easier
than repairing them later.
This is not a sales call. We take stock together - where you stand, what's weighing on you, and what step might actually bring relief now.
Does this sound familiar?
You've talked and reflected a lot.
And still, conversations keep going in circles.
Or they leave you more exhausted — instead of clearer.
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You talk a lot, but nothing really changes afterwards or moves forward
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Hurt and disappointment remain unspoken
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Decisions feel too heavy to make right now
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You keep adapting to circumstances
instead of shaping things intentionally
This isn’t a sign of weakness or lack of love.
It’s a common result of life abroad as a couple:
Job & Performance Stress
Little Space for Real Connection
Everyday Logistics in a Foreign Environment
Emotional Expectations
If nothing changes,
closeness and intimacy quietly erode.
Conversations become superficial.
Decisions heavier.
Inner pressure builds.
Clarity doesn't come from more talking.
It comes from structure that relieves.
WHAT ACTUALLY HELPS
Clarity Instead of Chaos
NOT
Endless conversations
Overthinking in circles
Pushing through without direction
Endless conversations
Overthinking in circles
Pushing through without direction
BUT
Clarity about what truly needs attention
Structure for conversations that move things forward
An non-judgmental outside perspective
That’s exactly what I offer for couples living abroad.
Structured, attuned, and focused on what genuinely matters now.
The first meaningful step: a joint clarification conversation.
Free Introductory Conversation
45 MINUTES · STRUCTURE & ORIENTATION · NO OBLIGATION
Together, we clarify where you stand – and which next step could ease things right now.
ABOUT
Hi, I'm Wiebke.
Relationship Coach and Decision Companion for Couples Abroad
I work with expat couples whose relationship isn’t breaking because of one major conflict — but is strained by the ongoing weight of decisions, expectations, and role changes abroad.
many years of personal experience living abroad, with family and in an intercultural relationship
a deep understanding of carrying professional and private responsibility at the same time
certified couples counsellor, PhD in social sciences, trained mediator
clear, structured, and attentive
creating order where thoughts and emotions feel tangled
holding tension — not rushing into quick solutions
I am your biggest fan and kindest critic.
HOW I WORK WITH YOU
Support That Fits Your Situation
We always begin with a joint clarification conversation.
Everything else grows from there — shaped by your reality.
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Couple Sessions
CLARITY INSTEAD OF COPING & PUSHING THROUGH
Helpful when:
conversations go in circles
emotional closeness has faded
roles and responsibilities are unclear
decisions are blocked, you feel stuck
Focus:
sorting priroties
structuring conversations and making them more productive
restoring shared agency
Goal: Authenticity and decisions you can carry together.
We’ll clarify whether — and how — couples sessions would be helpful right now.
In some circumstances, others formats might be more useful:
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Individual Sessions
REDUCING INNER PRESSURE
Helpful when:
you’re torn between closeness and distance
thoughts keep going in circles
your partner isn’t ready (yet) to join
Focus:
inner clarity
preparing important conversations
strategising & talking through next steps
Goal: Loosening the inner knot and regaining agency.
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Intensive Support
WHEN TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE OR PRESSURE IS HIGH
Helpful when:
a decision is imminent
waiting increases pressure
moderation or a shift in perspective is needed
Format:
clearly structured
time-focused
optional messenger support
Goal: Clarity and decisions that are true to you.
What You Gain
Couples who work with me regain orientation and inner stability, even when life abroad remains demanding:
✅ making decisions instead of postponing them
💬 conversations that clarify and reconnect
📋 clear roles, priorities, and expectations
🤝 feeling like a team again — even under pressure
You'll know where you stand
and how to move forward together.
The next meaningful step
Free Introductory Conversation
45 MINUTES
Together, we clarify:
where you stand
what's blocking you
which next steps
make sense now
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