Life Abroad changed your

Relationship?

Let’s get back to feeling connected.

Is this you?

  • Your relationship feels strained since moving abroad?
  • Conversations that used to flow now turn into conflicts?
  • You feel like strangers despite being together?
  • Stress, distance, and change make it hard to connect?
  • You just want things to be back to normal?


Or is it a little bit of everything?

And at the same time...

  • You want a connection that makes coming home something to look forward to
  • You miss the ease and the intimacy that you once shared
  • You usually handle things well, but this time, you could use some extra support.

If this sounds familiar, you're in the right place.

Relationship challenges abroad can feel overwhelming,

but they don’t have to define your experience.

With the right guidance and tools, you can move past feeling stuck

and start building a stronger, more connected life together.

I'm here to help you find your way back to each other.

I guide couples through real-life strategies to improve communication, gain clarity, and rebuild intimacy β€” so your relationship feels like home, no matter where you are.

Imagine you could...

Feel more connected and valued β€” Rediscover what makes your relationship unique.
Find lasting solutions β€” Tackle challenges in a way that works for both of you.
Less conflict, more understanding β€” End the cycle of unproductive arguments.
Move forward together β€” with new perspectives and renewed energy.
Reconnect with your partner β€” Bring back that feeling of being seen and appreciated.
Disagree without the drama β€” Have honest conversations without frustration or tears.

Online Relationship Coaching

Relationship Coaching Options

Pick the right format that suits your life and needs:

COACHING SESSION PACKAGES

  • Tailored advice over 3, 5, or 10 sessions.
  • Ideal for structured progress and lasting change.

POWER HOURS /

MENTORING CALLS

  • One-off sessions to get feedback on specific issues.


WALKIE TALKIE COACHING

  • Ongoing support via the Voxer app
  • Reach out when stuck in thoughts, discussions, or decisions, and get real-time advice.

Not sure what fits?

If you're unsure which option suits you, let’s have a quick, no-pressure chat.
I’ll help you figure out the best way forward.

Explanations and answers to

Frequently Asked Questions

In which languages do you offer coaching?

My coaching sessions are conducted in English, German, or Dutch.

How much does a session cost?
What is relationship coaching? How is it different from couples therapy?

Relationship coaching is a professional intervention that focuses on developing skills for healthy communication and conflict resolution, and reigniting intimacy and connection between partners. As relationship coach I encourage clients to become more self-aware, understand their values and beliefs, and learn how to be open and honest with themselves and their partner. Coaching is about reflection, empowering people to find their own answers, skill-building and supporting clients in making important choices. I will support you in understanding your relationship dynamics and behaviour.


I underwent training and certification and continously following training by the Gottman Institute. My approach to relationship coaching is systematic and structured, and many interventions (exercises) are used both from coaches and therapists.

Couples therapy will only be offered by a licensed therapist who is trained in dealing with mental health issues and illnesses, trauma, addiction, domestic violence. A therapist might put more emphasis on your past to help you identify and work through trauma, family relations, or childhood wounds that influence your behaviour of today. There is a saying "Therapy is about archaeology, coaching is about architecture". While past experiences matter, they are not in the centre of our relationship coaching conversations. Lastly, a relationship coach will neither give you a diagnosis nor a treatment or some medicine, as coaches are experts and facilitators of processes.

My partner does not want to come - can I do this by myself?

Yes, you can! Relationship coaching does not necessarily require the direct involvement of both parties, even though ideally both partners work on their relationship together. If you start reflecting on your couple dynamics and working on your conflict and communication patterns, it will influence your couple dynamic one way or the other. I encourage you to schedule a call even though your partner might not be ready yet.

Which specific problems can you help us with?

My focus is on UNDERSTANDING and ANALYSING patterns of behaviour and REPLACING them with alternatives through hands-on exercises on research-based interventions.


Some Examples how I can help you:

βœ… helping you understand why your relationship feels difficult and exhaustive;

βœ… reflect and improve your communication;

βœ… understand re-occuring perpetual problems / discussions;

βœ… mediate a conflict that seems unsolvable;

βœ… make your relationship ready for the big move, so that you avoid the common traps many expat couples experience;

and more.


πŸ›‘My services are not for you if your relationship problems root in mental disorders, addicitions, substance abuses, trauma, post traumatic stress, or the like.

Please book a free 30-min. Call to see if we are a good fit and I am the right person for your current issues.

Will you as a woman understand my perspective or just side with my wife?

In relationship coaching, being impartial is key to creating real progress. I won’t pretend it’s never tricky, but I see it as one of my strengths. I tend to approach couples like a researcher, focusing on the dynamics rather than taking sides. This helps me stay objective and create a space where both of you feel heard and understood. If you're worried I might lean toward your partner’s perspective, let's talk it through in our first sessionβ€”that way, we can address any concerns right from the start.

Am I committed to work with you after our first call?

Absolutely not! After our first free 30-minute call, if you decide that my coaching is not for you, or you don't feel comfortable moving forward for any reason, you are not obligated to the coaching sessions or further payment.

What is your professional background?

I am Wiebke Anton, I hold a PhD in political science (LMU Munich), certified relationship coach (BTB Bildungswerk fΓΌr Therapeutische Berufe) and mediator (WINGS HS Wismar). I completed the advanced training courses of the Gottman Institute, which developed the integrated research-based couples therapy.

To this end, I have undergone various additional trainings, including the Gottman Method of Couple Therapy (Level 2), work with system boards and system constellations. I am part of a network of colleagues for regular supervision.

Why choose you?

I have an eye for the big picture and am systematic and efficient in the way I work.

I have a talent for recognizing patterns and pitfalls, that others either overlook or underestimate in their effect.

My clients describe me as direct and determined, authentic and warm.


Last but not least, I am an Expat myself and relocated with my intercultural family from Europe to Central Asia and Africa. Therefore I know the challenges that couples face before, during, and after they moved abroad.


Countless scientific studies have shown that the chemistry between coach and client is one of the most important prerequisites for successful relationship coaching and positive changes in the couple.

That is why it is best to find out whether we are a good match for each other in a free call!

If you're feeling stuck or distant, then don't wait to re-discover each other. Invest in a private coaching session and make sure your relationship is the priority – it's time to start building your happily ever abroad!

My coaching services are the key to unlocking newfound intimacy and ease in your relationship.

Don't wait until the cracks become irreparable – take action now and start investing in your future as a couple!

Meanwhile...

How about checking out my

Resource Library

Mini-courses, workbooks, podcast interviews, and self-tests like my Couples Health Check-up Questionnaire to learn about the state of your relationship.


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